What compose a big soul?
Lately, I’ve been missing again on writing post here. It was not because I was too busy, but sometimes I have to hide my self to conquer my ego or to do some self reflections.
“Take and Give” was one of the issues that was saturated in my mind. We have to give after we do take something from another. In other word, we have to return what we’ve taken or other people have given to us. That is the classic rule for showing respect and built relationship between human.
This life sometimes is like a grocery. If we want something, we have to drop some money. But when we got something that unequal with what we’ve given then we’ll fall into disappointed feeling. In the ends, we stop giving because we couldn’t take back the same amount.
If we look inside our self with deeper comprehension, we will ask our self “where the disappointed feeling comes from?”. Then we should inquire to our self, “Did we give with sincere heart?” or “Did we have another intention that also brought in?”
Pick a random example, like when we did something to people. It also happened to me. When I thought I already did good things to another, helped another, be nice to another person but some wouldn’t do the same. Disappointing? Of course. But then I realize, it was not their fault but my ego that was incapacious.
I don’t know how to broke up with selfishness, but I know I always have every chance to practice unselfishness.
Giving without taking back, return back when we had given
Lately, I tried to practice those new role. Just give, give, and give. Give smile, give greetings, give help, give comments, give time, give some what I can give.
Thank you God, I feel happier than before 🙂
You won’t lose anything when you give, yet you get more than anything.
Being rich is not about how much you have, but how much we give. 🙂
with love, eka cahyanidwy